They seek any counsel, from Christians or otherwise, that empathizes with their position and gives any encouragement whatsoever. It’s your choice, of course, and you can tell your straying spouse to leave and never return.
Or, if he or she is a good person involved in a bad situation, you can fight to save your marriage.
Maybe your abandoning spouse had a period of hesitation.Time is on your side, especially if you continually pray for God to intercede and bring trials and tribulations into the sinful relationship.At the same time, do not cling, beg, whine, plead, or manipulate.Then you began to vacillate, worrying that you must be right but telling yourself that surely you aren’t.When you asked questions, the answers seemed a little too slick and too rehearsed. Refuse to cooperate and you will find yourself in a bloody legal battle.