Why did women suddenly respond with enthusiasm rather than distaste?Whether it’s friends, family, religion, or media — many of us were raised to think that expressing our sexual interest (flirting) was wrong. This is especially true for many women who are afraid of being seen as “slutty” or too forward.So how do you approach the topic of sex tastefully? Stop waiting for permission to move into intimate topics.Very few women are going to lead it there or say “You can ask me about sex now!Instead, assume if you’ve been talking to a woman for a minimum of 15-30 minutes (at a bar or on a date), it’s safe to try leading into more enticing conversation.From there, you can immediately roll into your sexual question to open up a discussion.
I stumbled over my words trying to explain myself, “Umm.. I’m sorry if it came off like that.” They told me how it weird and they weren’t going to answer a question like that. They initially gave me the same attitude, but this time the liquid courage gave me a comeback.” Now if you’re naturally discussing a related topic like The movie, past relationships / hookups / dates, online dating, or first kisses — then take that opportunity to move into more intimate topics.But you can’t always rely on getting “gimmes” like that. You have to take a chance and lead into these sexual subjects.Once you’ve gotten into an intimate conversation, you can progressively mix in heavier sexual questions with non-sexual questions.You don’t have to talk about sex endlessly unless she seems really excited to.