But what if you legitimately to be friends afterwards? Just because you didn’t work out as lovers, it doesn’t mean that you can’t be friends – even Let’s start this off with some straight talk: you’re not going to be friends for a while.How do you navigate the complicated waters of a post-break-up friendship? Yes, there are people who say that they were able to slip straight into a friendship after they broke up without missing a beat.Most of the time, when you’ve broken up, it’s for a very good reason.Staying around one another – even when you both swear that you’re over it – almost always means that all you’re doing is prolonging the breaking-up portion of your relationship, which is an excellent way to ensure that you be friends afterwards.Regardless of whether you lived together or lived apart, you will have into certain patterns that are dependent on working in tandem with another person. It’s easier and healthier to start a friendship when you’ve had the time and and distance to get some perspective on your old relationship.It takes time to relearn how to be on your own again, and the longer you were with them, the longer it’s going to take. Plus, getting over your ex helps avoid the annoying “reconnecting because you want to bang, not be friends” two-step.You need to have time apart, without being in contact with each other, in order to move into this new phase of your life.One of the things that people tend to forget – especially in a long-term relationship – is that you develop new habits and routines that center around having your ex in your life.
Your relationship has just ended and that deserves to be observed.Singers Katy Perry and Travis Mc Coy have ended their relationship, a source tells PEOPLE. “Nothing seemed out of the ordinary.” After more than a year of friendship and casual dating, the musicians got serious right before both hit the road for last summer’s Vans Warped tour.The “I Kissed a Girl” singer, 24, and the Gym Class Heroes frontman, 27, vacationed together in Mexico over the holidays, but they split shortly before the New Year, says a source. and NEVER LET’S ME DOWN.” The same day, Perry performed at the Gridlock New Year’s Eve party on the Paramount lot. Mc Coy bought Perry a “promise ring,” he told PEOPLE in June, while he wore a silver band with the word “Katy” on it.“It’s a hardship, but she’s regrouping,” a source told Celebuzz, which first reported the split. 31, where he posted lyrics to hip-hop group Main Source’s breakup song “Looking at the Front Door.” The song includes the lines: “We fight every night, now that’s not kosher/I reminisce with bliss of when we was closer/And wake up to be greeted by an argument again/You act like you’re ten.” He followed the lyrical post with another loaded message, declaring his devotion to his laptop: “My Laptop is my new b–. A rep for Perry, a Grammy nominee who kicks off a tour Jan.23 in Seattle, had no comment on the singer’s personal life.